Now, day by day I feel like reiki has been part of my life since long time ago, I was not associating it with reiki because I didn’t even know what that was.

The example here presented was an idea that I’ve explored since very young, the idea that any perception I have, any experience I go through, it can be perceived in a total different way by others, and the only way for us to share it is through communication. However there is no way through regular communication to find out if we were having a totally different perception. 

Due to what i have been through in my life lately, regarding my relationship that got to an end and I still feel I’m not able to let it go, I feel the end is not the solution. I fell into anxiety and depression so as my wife, and at some point I found that what was making me depressed was not the situation but the way I was seeing, perceiving it, and I also could find (even if often difficult due to my emotions taking control of myself) is that we can change, jump, look to other points of view to get a different perception and interpretation…

Then, since there was so much love in our relationship but with some other things not working, I started thinking that we just need to change our view points to reach a new and common perception, a different common experience, and we could keep on living our love.

When I tried to pass this idea to my wife, she refused it, saying that is her way to see things, that’s the reality things don’t work between us, that she’s never going to change the way that she sees things, because that she is because she’s seeing the reality. Then in her opinion it is better to give up on love since other things don’t work. I must say here that many times when I was trying to explain to her my idea about different but common points of view that we could archive and get our relationship working, she was getting upset accusing me of trying to manipulate her mind. And many times I got the sensation that she was getting my message completely wrong, giving a feedback totally out of track, like, just to explain it was like when I was saying  “my car is in the garage” and she was replying “no no… these apples are for fruits salad”…

What I see is that there is many realities regarding the same thing, since there is many points/ways of view, like the glass of water story… just half… half full… half empty… all them are different realities perceived by different points of view.

So, now I face myself with these questions… since Love can lead us to the light, what would be the best path:

Let it go, letting my wife stick to her point of view and find love on someone else, since other things aren’t working between us? (Is this her reiki path?)
or
Keep on trying to communicate with her, trying to show her that there are more points of view showing different realities, she just needs to look through it and see that our relationship works since there’s love. (is this my reiki path?)

I hope I’ll find the answer through reiki…

I don’t know if I got myself understood, sorry but my first language is not English!

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